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Becoming a parent for the first time is exciting but frightening. No textbooks, so that you understand things in their own way. The Cheat Sheet Zero Austin area with vlogger who with his wife, Brittany, extracts the message of his life in his YouTube channel, the Nive void. Austin, who recently became a father for the third time, gave us some tips for new dads and fathers' to be.
The Cheat Sheet: What advice would you give to new parents?
Austin zero: Be patient and pay attention to details, so that you can learn quickly. It's not as difficult as it seems, but only do things that slightly unnatural for us (men) appear at a time. I think there's a reason why we are the ones who have no babies! But the important thing is to enjoy the process and the time of the first time your child. They grow up and be able to play sports with them or teaching an instrument or if not just sit quietly at the time, but stay and check all the stops. So enjoy.
CS: In your opinion, what is the hardest part of being a parent for the first time?
AN: I think that self-denial learning is difficult for everyone, but as a father will show you very quickly the reality of what you want to do and what the child is doing the will of the conflict of times and never for It may seem like a thing ". duh "seem to say, but sometimes it's hard to walk when you get used accustomed their own thing. So try in self-denial, which happens the baby, leading to work (I'm sure your wife will not mind) and to learn to love others more than himself.
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The Cheat Sheet: How to juggle cleaning the house, cooking and caring for small children?
Austin emptiness: it is hard for me because I'm usually awful cleaning and cooking ... but what I found is that it control well able certain things in certain areas to make it easier for you and your partner's things. For example, I have learned to cope with the cleaning of the kitchen (95% of the time ... I'm not perfect). This helps the UK, my wife, because if they are not busy and can come and take a glass of water without worrying about a mess she feels, has to clean it, it will still be important in a better mood for me, and, Baby. Cook ... er ... Chipotle life. In addition, Trader Joes has delicious chicken fried rice is frozen easy to do.
CS: How safe is the firstborn is not jealous when a new baby comes?
AN: That's something that you want, in one form or another, almost 100% of the hand. To accept and learn to deal gracefully with regard to his first son. You do not have the mental capacity to understand that it's nothing personal. However, you can make them temporarily to forget what the new baby and feel the king or queen. Take them on a father and son moment [game], buy a fun, small toy and say it is a gift for the new baby, etc. or simply a "bad parents" for a few days and let you see it that disaster outta some Disney Junior. Netflix binge, as you watch your job and to disable, so that your child things back to normal to survive!
CS: How New Dads can help the mother during the first months?
AN: It is difficult for me because I have a hard time multitasking and my wife is already a superwoman, but I'd have to be a conscious effort there. Getting constantly and tired with it. Take the other children out of his hands and make sure that you are well enough to relax and everything is under control. In addition, you surprise them with flowers / gifts / chocolate / Chipotle Cheetos / hot / You get the idea.
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